How to Know If You’re Married to a Narcissist: Signs, Red Flags, and What Moms Need to Do

If you’re in a marriage that feels heavy and painful – you know something is deeply wrong, but no matter how hard you try, nothing ever gets resolved – you’re not alone.

Maybe you feel like you’re stuck in an endless loop of arguments, confusion, and blame. Trapped. Isolated. Ashamed. Wondering how the person you once believed was your soulmate could make you feel so unseen and unloved.

You gave your whole heart to your family.

You adore your children, and you’ve worked so hard to create a safe and loving home. But over time, your partner became the strict, harsh parent – the one whose punishments left you sick to your stomach.

When you stepped in to protect your kids, he told you you were “too soft,” that you were “ruining them.” Deep down, though, you knew the truth: your love and intuition were protecting your children from harm.

Slowly, you started to see the patterns.

The gaslighting. The lies. The way he said one thing and did the opposite. You realized the man you thought you married was not who he truly is.

And now you feel broken down, unsupported, and traumatized by someone who was supposed to love you. You’re fighting not just for your own wellbeing, but for your children’s.

I know this story, because I lived it too. And so have thousands of other moms.

That’s why I created the Narcissist Quiz

A simple but powerful tool to help you finally understand what you’re dealing with. Because once you can name it, you can start to reclaim your power, your peace, and your future.

You don’t have to stay trapped in pain and loneliness. You deserve clarity. You deserve freedom. You deserve to know the truth.

✨ Take the Narcissist Quiz today and take the first step toward healing, empowerment, and a new beginning for you and your children.